Introduction
When you first dive into the world of Korean dramas, you might find yourself wondering about certain peculiar practices as the main characters grow closer and eventually start dating. Why are they wearing matching outfits? What's the significance of a 100-day anniversary? And what's the deal with couple rings? These unique customs are integral to Korea's distinctive dating culture. Dating in Korea is a fascinating mix of traditional values and modern practices. The Korean dating culture has several unique aspects that set it apart from Western dating norms. Let's explore some of these distinctive features and the special holidays that couples celebrate in Korea.
Confessing Feelings: "Gobaek"
In Korea, relationships often begin with a formal confession of feelings, known as "Gobaek" (고백). This practice, borrowed from Japanese culture, involves one person explicitly declaring their romantic interest in another. It's considered the official start of a relationship, marking a clear transition from friendship to dating. The official first day of marked in the calendar and all the coming anniversary days will be referenced.
Couple Holidays: Celebrating Love Year-Round
Korea has a unique calendar of "couple holidays" celebrated on the 14th of each month. Some of the most popular ones include:
- Valentine's Day (February 14th): Women typically give chocolates to men.
- White Day (March 14th): Men reciprocate by giving candy or gifts to women.
- Black Day (April 14th): Single people gather to eat black bean noodles (jajangmyeon) and commiserate about their single status.
- Rose Day (May 14th): Couples exchange roses.
- Kiss Day (June 14th): A day for couples to share kisses.
- Silver Day (July 14th): Couples exchange silver rings or accessories.
Milestone Celebrations: 100 Days and Beyond
Korean couples celebrate relationship milestones, with the 100-day anniversary (백일) being particularly significant. This tradition stems from the historical importance of a baby's 100th day in Korean culture. Couples often exchange rings, have a special date, or give each other gifts to mark this occasion.
Other important milestones include:
- 200 days
- 300 days
- 1 year (called 'paper anniversary' or 종이혼식)
- 1000 days
Couple Look: Matching Outfits
It's common to see Korean couples wearing matching or coordinated outfits, known as "couple look" (커플룩). This can range from identical t-shirts to complementary color schemes. It's a way for couples to publicly display their relationship and unity.
Romantic Holidays
Besides the monthly couple days, there are other romantic holidays in Korea:
- Pepero Day (November 11th): Similar to Valentine's Day, couples exchange Pepero sticks (long, thin cookie sticks often dipped in chocolate).
- Christmas (December 25th): While traditionally a family holiday in the West, in Korea, Christmas is often considered a romantic holiday for couples.
Date Courses
Korean couples often plan elaborate "date courses" (데이트 코스) that involve multiple activities in a single outing. A typical date might include a meal, a trip to a café, watching a movie, and perhaps visiting a scenic spot or attraction. As Koreans live busy lives their only free time for each other is usually is on the weekends that’s why every second needs to but squeezed out fully and the whole day has to have a plan.
Men Pay the Meal Women Pay for Desert
It's common for the man to pay for the meal, and the woman will pay for dessert or coffee afterward. Which creates a balance in the relationship.
Conclusion
The dating culture in Korea offers a unique blend of tradition and modernity. From formal confessions to elaborate couple holidays, Korean dating customs provide a structured yet romantic approach to relationships. Whether you're planning to date in Korea or just curious about different cultural practices, understanding these customs can offer fascinating insights into Korean society and values.
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